2009
06.24

 

Today I want to talk to you about FEAR.  Fear is the root of all evil in your business.  Being afraid to step out and do something because someone might laugh at you or think what
you are doing is not cool, is one of the most deadly sabators of your business.  Lets face it people, have you looked at some of the videos on YouTube lately?  Honestly, there are people on there just trying to be funny in hopes that someone will notice.  You certianly have nothing to fear by putting your own videos out there.  I have had my own fear of doing videos.  I always said to myself “the script isn’t quite good enough.”  I have also said to myself “People will think that I look bad”, Or, “I am having a bad hair day”.  To be perfectly honest, if the idea, concept or information that you are giving is valuable in any way to even just one person, isn’t it worth your while to put it out there to help them?  Take a look at this video I did and judge for yourself.  I in no way feel this is my best shot, but does it really matter?  Doing video is all about showing people who you are.  Its about presenting yourself as a real person.  We all have fears about different things.  Some fear public speaking.  Some fear talking on the phone.  Some fear meeting people face to face.  My daughter for example fears talking to people face to face, however, when she is on stage for a play, she is outgoing and has no fear.  The best way to overcome fear is to force yourself to do the task that you fear.  If necessary, there are a multitude of books and media out there to help build your self confidence.  One of the most important books out is about attraction marketing.  First and formost, you should read this book.  It is called Magnetic Sponsoring by Mike Dillard.  You can pick up your copy here.

Another way of boosting your self confidence is to use Positive Affirmations.  Read my blog article about this subject and find some suggestions here and here

Something I have just begun to use and have found to be very helpful are Mind Movies.  These are movies you can make on your own hopes and desires.  You can set them to play as a screensaver, or you can watch them daily as meditation.  You can join Mind Movies here.  Its free to join, but I suggest you buy the full product to recieve the benifit of subliminal messages.

Well, there you have it, a few suggestions that will help you come out of your shell and start doing what you fear.

Don’t delay another minute, the world may pass you buy and later you will regret that you had fear.

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